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I ve read several dating books, and, after a while, they overlap, appearing too similar Most of them give pep talks and have their little strategies for making fine impressions on others.But, what s the point of all the above if you re meeting people who are not personality matches for you Or, what if you re blinded by outside appearances yet don t really know what suits you best for a long term relationship So, while I don t know if Warren s book is a panacea, he sets up some new and refreshi I ve read several dating books, and, after a while, they overlap, appearing too similar Most of them give pep talks and have their little strategies for making fine impressions on others.But, what s the point of all the above if you re meeting people who are not personality matches for you Or, what if you re blinded by outside appearances yet don t really know what suits you best for a long term relationship So, while I don t know if Warren s book is a panacea, he sets up some new and refreshing ideas on how to match personalities.I took the test at eharmony, which was free, and it gave me some insights into my personality, as well as personalities which are best suited for me in dating.How much is that worth to me Well, enough to put in some time to buy the book and read it If it s going to save me some time and help me find the right person, rather than be with someone not so great, I m willing to put up a little money I feel like I have a good idea about how to date, what to look for, and what to watch out for But, Dr Warren, a clinical psychologist and tenured relationship counselor, almost describes a formula for finding a person you will fit together with well for the rest of your life I found that this book will keep me in check whether I m crazy about a girl, or doubtful Emotions come and go To get married or not to get married solely based on emotional feelings toward someone can turn into a disast I feel like I have a good idea about how to date, what to look for, and what to watch out for But, Dr Warren, a clinical psychologist and tenured relationship counselor, almost describes a formula for finding a person you will fit together with well for the rest of your life I found that this book will keep me in check whether I m crazy about a girl, or doubtful Emotions come and go To get married or not to get married solely based on emotional feelings toward someone can turn into a disaster or a fantastic, but lost opportunity Marriage is one of the most serious decisions made in life So, knowing how to get it right should be sought after whole heartedly and this book gives practical guidelines for finding your soulmate.Know yourselfKnow your Must Haves and Can t StandsKnow the warning signs of unhealthy peopleKnow what questions to ask while you dateKnow what league you re inKnow which qualities stand the test of time and which fade in a few short years Book was highly recommended to me by a friend Kind of funny to have even read it, but it actually gave very helpful perspective and has changed my approach to dating My good friend Fanny recommended the Neil Clark Warren founder of eharmony book Date of Soul Mate I ve never done eharmony and at this point, not planning to, but the book had a few sections that she wanted me to read The book had been helpful to her, especially the section on creating a list of the top ten must haves can t stands in a potential partner Over the years, I have fallen into the trap of meeting lots of very nice guys, who have not met my needs and it probably was because I ha My good friend Fanny recommended the Neil Clark Warren founder of eharmony book Date of Soul Mate I ve never done eharmony and at this point, not planning to, but the book had a few sections that she wanted me to read The book had been helpful to her, especially the section on creating a list of the top ten must haves can t stands in a potential partner Over the years, I have fallen into the trap of meeting lots of very nice guys, who have not met my needs and it probably was because I had no idea what I even wanted I also overlooked issues that were fundamental because I liked other qualities in the men that I was dating This has lead to lots of good times, but nothing that has lasted I don t know how helpful this list will ultimately become, but it has helped me realize some trouble spots in previous relationships and hopefully will be a guide in the future It s a bit imperfect, probably could use some tweaking, but after a great deal of thought, here is the list, with verbage taken from the book, not my own.Must Have1.Communicator I must have someone who is good at both talking and listening.2.Sense of Humor I must have someone who is sharp and who can enjoy the humorous side of life.3.Verbal Intimacy I must know that my partner likes sharing his deepest emotional thoughts and desires.4.Strong Character I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough to do the right thing.5.Kind I must have a partner who is gentle and kind.6.Patient I must have someone who can handle life s frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady demeanor.7.Conflict Resolver I must have a partner who will work to resolve rather than win arguments or conflicts in our relationship.8.Exciting I must have a partner who isn t afraid to take a risk and who sees life as an adventure.9.Emotionally Healthy I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy and able to share a stable life with someone.10.Adaptable I must have a partner who is able to adapt to life s surprises.Can t Stands1.Cynical I can t stand someone who generally sees the world from a cynical perspective2.Angry I can t stand someone who can t manage their own anger, who yells or bottles it up inside.3.Denying I can t stand someone who is unable to accept blame or see fault is his own actions 4.Worrying I can t stand someone who easily looses perspective and constantly worries.5.Hypocrites I can t stand someone who holds a double standard for his actions and those of other people.6.Victim Mentality I can t stand someone who continually sees himself as a victim.7.Childish I can t stand someone who is not emotionally mature.8.Judgmental I can t stand someone who finds fault with everyone and everything.9.Undependable I can t stand someone who fails to come through and is unreliable.10.Arrogant I can t stand someone who is obnoxiously cocky.I thought that this little exercise was the most value that the book had to offer, although I think that perhaps making a list is easier than it actually is to find a person who meets these qualities The other point that I thought was well made in the book was focusing on finding a person who is generallysimilar to you, rather than the whole opposites attract I also want to add that I had a lot of bias that I had to set aside going into this book, especially with Warren constantly touting himself as a psychologist Having him calling himself an expert due to being a psychologist made me put my radar up the entire book I am highly suspicious of psychologists, but that being said, I think that Warren offered some solid advice and portions of this book are worth a read I m glad that my friend recommended this book o Simple and really helpful Neil has laid down the complete flowchart for the reader, to how to get to know yourself first then to find your soul mate and have a beautiful life ahead It s a really helpful book for all the people who haven t found their soulmates yet Or even for the one s who already have, but are facing problems with them This book would help you deal very well with them Such a great bang for my buck What a wonderful read to start off my year 2020 What I like about this book is, it doesn t criticize, but to give you knowledge It is informative that focusesof knowing yourself and also giving some lists and examples to identify yourself knowing what you likes and dislikes, wants and needs, giving ideas to learn and know yourself first before searching for a partner A marvelous book that is for keeps and also a great book to pass on to a friend or anyone Such a great bang for my buck What a wonderful read to start off my year 2020 What I like about this book is, it doesn t criticize, but to give you knowledge It is informative that focusesof knowing yourself and also giving some lists and examples to identify yourself knowing what you likes and dislikes, wants and needs, giving ideas to learn and know yourself first before searching for a partner A marvelous book that is for keeps and also a great book to pass on to a friend or anyone we care who s still in search about themselves and longing to search for their lifetime partners A must book for every single person guiding them to find right one Good book Makes you think a bitstrategically about dating I don t think think he s telling us anything we don t know, but by forcing us to write it down, it makes us thinkconcretely. *READ E-PUB ☚ Date or Soul Mate?: How to Know if Someone is 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I would not have started reading this book if I knew how much it emphasized the end goal of marriage While that may be what a lot of people want, I feel that millennials are leaning less towards that traditional approach With that being said, this book did have a few tips on building a solid relationship The most helpful advice in this book is that every person should build two lists must haves and can t stands These lists will help you decide if someone is worth continuing to pursue For i I would not have started reading this book if I knew how much it emphasized the end goal of marriage While that may be what a lot of people want, I feel that millennials are leaning less towards that traditional approach With that being said, this book did have a few tips on building a solid relationship The most helpful advice in this book is that every person should build two lists must haves and can t stands These lists will help you decide if someone is worth continuing to pursue For instance if you are highly spiritual, ambitious, and giving, a person who is a lazy atheist will not be the ideal mate for you This is an extreme example, but you get the point Another bit of good advice in this book is knowing when to call it quits early on in the dating game Save yourself and the other person some time by ending it before you get too emotionally attached This book presents the argument that you must find someone who is similar to you and who can bring a similar amount of value to your relationship In other words, you have to marry someone who is in your league The author notes that relationships with people who are very similar tend to do better I didn t really care for this book at all It s a simplified view of dating and emotional well being The author founded eHarmony He has a religious background which shapes a lot of the values presented in this book